I have collected some videos from around the web to help you understand the problem and the possible solutions from some of the experts out there.
Addiction ADHD Alexandra Katehakis Alfred Adler Attention breathwork Brene Brown Carlo DiClemente Carol Dweck CBT Children Craving Dana Gionta Dopamine Gerald May Gratitude hope Jeanette Elizabeth Menter Jean Twenge Jeffrey Bernstein Jon Kabat-Zinn Jordan Peterson Judith Grisel Karyl McBride Kimberly Hershenson Maia Szalavitz Margarita Tartakovsky Melody Beattie Nervous system Nina W. Brown Nir Eyal Patrick Carnes Pia Melody recovery Sarah Rumpf Science self esteem Sharon Martin Stanton Peele Suffering Susan Heitler Tamara Hill Tara Brach Teal Swan Tony Robbins